Murray, Dorothy Marie

Murray, Dorothy Marie

September 12th, 2018

Dorothy peacefully passed away at Victoria Hospital, London, on Wednesday, September 12, 2018, at the age of 55, with family by her side. During Dorothy’s long struggle with cancer, she always remained positive and determined to fight. Dorothy will be lovingly remembered by her husband Ross of 34 years; daughters, Melissa Kaups (Paul) and Jessica Trela (Adam); and grandson Dallas Kaups. She was raised in Abercrombie, Nova Scotia by her parents, Patsy and Ray Christensen, along with her sister Darlene, and brother Danny Christensen. Dorothy will be fondly remembered for the loving and educational environment she provided for many daycare children over the years. Her happy place was always in her sewing room; crafting, quilting and completing projects brought her much joy. During her illness, she completed many projects for the patients in cancer treatment. Family and friends will be received on Friday, September 28, 2018 from 11:30 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. (Eastern time), at WESTVIEW FUNERAL CHAPEL, 709 Wonderland Road North, London, Ontario, where the funeral service will be conducted at 1:00 p.m. (Eastern time). The service will be streamed live to the R.H. Porter Funeral Home, New Glasgow, Nova Scotia. The family would like to thank the Palliative Care Unit at Victoria Hospital for their care and compassion. In lieu of flowers, those wishing to make a donation in memory of Dorothy are asked to consider the Canadian Cancer Society or the local Food Bank. 

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I.T.Today a butterfly flew by me. You come into this world as a cocoon And blossom into this beautiful butterfly and fly off to see the world. What you don't realize butterfly as you flutter through your days Is how you touch those around you in your calm and gentle way. She fluttered her wings toward me one bright September day, As if waving good-by as she headed on her way. She looked very happy and content, as if to say to me, "Don't worry, I'll be okay". I was sad to see her go, for she touched my heart in such a way that I knew my life would never be the same. She left an imprint of the beauty that life has to offer, And I knew each time I saw another butterfly I would remember our moment in time. Thank you beautiful butterfly, I will be a better person All because you flew by me one bright and sunny day. You will be sadly missed.
David, Barb, Gabriel & KateTo Ross and Dorothy's family and friends; our family among many share your grief and will support you however we can in this sad ending to four years of adversity. The challenges were faced with courage and grace. We hope the love of others and the presence of so many great memories will soften your grief over time.
Blaise and Beverley MacGillivaryvery sad news with the passing of my dear cousin Dorothy. God has you in his arms now and you will suffer no more. condolences to Ross and the kids, and to Patsy and Ray so sorry for your loss.
Lynda Cogswell-lawsonRoss and Dorothys family and Patsy and Ray we are so sorry for your loss God love her she fought a good fight and is at peace. A dear cousin forever remembered! Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time Love from your cousins in the west. Lynda,David ,Ashley and Michael Lawson
Gerry and RegTo Ross and girls our heartfelt condolences. To Ross directly - a more supportive spouse Dorothy could not have asked for! I am certain that every day she smiled larger, walked taller and fought harder knowing you were there at her side on this most arduous journey. Love transcends all boundaries. To my sister Patsy, Ray, Danny and Darlene - all our love and prayers rest with you. Throughout this epic battle Dorothy always carried herself with a quiet dignity reminiscent of her grandmother Bestemor. Make no mistake - her inherited steel like resolve would reveal itself to fight whenever necessary. However we are now at the moment of letting go. Helen Keller said: What we have once enjoyed and deeply loved we can never lose, for all that we love deeply becomes a part of us. Blessings upon you Dorothy - until we meet again!
ErinAngela CousineauDear Ross, I am heartbroken to hear the news that you lost your beautiful wife Dorothy and to your girls and grandchild I am deeply sorry for their loss as well. I will remember Dorothy in my heart as a young Mom in Oshawa looking forward to having the family she adored with so much ahead of her. I am glad her suffering is over, but I am so sorry for the ones left to mourn her. Rest Easy Dorothy
Alex and MayRoss, Melissa, Jessica and Family, though our words can do little, we hope our thoughts and prayers will support you at this time. May the peace that comes from the memories of love shared, comfort you now and in the days ahead.
Heather and HughieSo sorry for your loss. All of you are in our thoughts and our hearts. Know that Dorothy is at rest now. One day at a time and may the love you shared while she was here on this earth give you some sort of comfort. God bless you all.
Karen & David We would like to express our sincere condolences to you and your family. May your memories give you peace and comfort.
Ian &Sue MacGillivaryWill miss all the wonderful memories. May God bless you and hold you close.
Carolie McCarronTo Ross and family, my sincere condolences to you at this sad time. My prayers are with you all.
Janice MurrayDorothy was an amazing lady and such a wonderful addition to our family. We share in the loss and grief felted by our brother and his girls and her parents and their families. Dorothy will be truly missed by all who were lucky enough to know her. Sister -In- Laws Carolyn & Janice Murray
Carolyn Murray To our dear brother & his girls as well as Patsy ,Ray, Danny and Darlene and their families we extend our heart felt sympathy. Dorothy was a special lady who displayed a kind heart and a caring spirit to others. She always put others first and our memories will be treasured of time spent with her. There will always be a missing piece in our family. Sister-In -Laws Carolyn & Janice Murray
Linda GarrardDear Ross and family, I am so sorry to learn of your loss. It is such a sad and difficult time and we will miss her very much. Sincerest sympathy Linda Garrard
Heather AndersonPlease accept my heartfelt sympathy on Dorothy’s passing. Although we did not keep in touch often in our adult years, I have many fond memories of the fun we shared in 4-H club events, crafting and sewing together (with Dorothy’s projects turning out perfectly and mine rather lumpy), cheerleading, camping at Seafoam and just hanging out together doing girl stuff. Dorothy was a wonderful friend and I particularly will remember her each year when I unpack my kravlenisser at Christmastime. May you find comfort knowing that she is now at peace.
Lisa, Erick, Amanda, and HunterSo sorry for your loss, Ross and family, Sending our prayers your way
Renu Choudhary Dear Ross and Family - so sorry to hear of your loss . My thoughts and prayers are with you and your dear family.
Cathy PhilbinDear Ross, Melissa and Jessica - So very sorry to hear of Dorothy's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. Sincerely Mark and Cathy
Lynn CharronRoss, Jessica, Melissa and family, Meeting Dorothy has truly been a gift in itself. Dorothy has shown kindness and patience to anyone she has met. While fighting to live her life she has also tried to make other people’s life better, making hats for cancer patients and quilts for others. Everything she has made was a labour of love, love for others that she didn’t get the chance to meet. I will always remember her kind words when I struggled and the hugs she gave freely. Dorothy you will always be missed. Ross and family if there is anything you need don’t hesitate to ask. Rest in the peace you so deserve Dorothy, you fought long and hard til the end.
Wally, Nancy, Lexi, & TashaTo Ross, Jessica, Melissa and Dorothy's family, Please accept our sincere condolences on the loss of Dorothy. We met Dorothy while she was on her cancer "journey". Even with all that was going on with her, she was a joy to get to know. Her kindness and friendship was so appreciated by us. She was an amazing source of strength of will and energy. Her many craft skills that she happily shared with others were incredible. We were blessed to have her in our lives even for a short time & will truly miss her.
Donna, Scott, Jacob, Sidney and ErinRoss, Melissa and Jessica know you are in our prayers. May your many joyful memories of Dorothy carry you through this time of loss. I thank the Lord our paths crossed and we were blessed to have Dorothy care for our children. I truly believe they are better people for it. She will always have a special place in all our hearts.
DebraRoss, Melissa and Jessica, Please accept my condolences and know that my thoughts are with you. I have wonderful memories of visiting my cousin Dorothy during the summers when we were young and will always treasure these. Dorothy will be missed. Wishing you peace. Deb
Mary Oko & Jeff HoedemanJess, Adam, Ross and the family - we send strength and friendship to you all. Dorothy will always be among us through your happy memories of the time you shared. Much love!!
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