Jose Luis Alves

In Loving Memory of Uncle José ❤️ Uncle José, where do I begin? Maybe at the beginning. My fondest memories go back to the times when you and your family came to visit from Canada. It was always a celebration. For us, it meant laughter, stories, and adventure. For you, it was probably a marathon of family visits and sleepovers all across the Netherlands. As a child, I was fascinated that you spoke a different language. And especially the way you spoke: English filled with the emotion and spirit of your Portuguese roots. I can still hear it today — the way you pronounced my name: "MarIEska!" No one has ever said it quite like you. During my first trip to Canada, you and Aunt Trees took us on a real camper adventure. Barbecues, fireflies, nature, and the breathtaking surroundings. Until that one evening... when a huge beetle found its way into my pajamas — I even remember it was under my armpit! I was completely hysterical and on the verge of causing a full-blown crisis, while you simply said, "What's wrong with that girl? All that drama!" Looking back, we laughed so much about it, but I still maintain that beetle was absolutely enormous. Another thing I will never forget was how completely at home you seemed in nature. Whether in Canada or later on our farm in the Netherlands, you would walk around, pick something from a tree or bush, examine it for a moment, and then casually eat it. Your discovery of chestnuts remains one of my favorite memories. Your last visit is also etched in my memory. You wanted to treat us to a truly great piece of meat from the barbecue. So off we went to the wholesaler, because according to you, what was sold in the average supermarket simply didn't meet Canadian—or Portuguese—standards. It became one of those evenings that, in hindsight, you realize will stay with you forever. I am grateful for all those beautiful moments, for your humor, your stories, your warmth, and your wonderfully stubborn, unique personality. Life is a gift, but no matter how much we know that, saying goodbye always comes too soon. This goodbye is no exception. Rest peacefully, Uncle José. But wherever you are, please hold on to that Portuguese temperament. It wouldn't be you without it. Love you. ❤️ My heartfelt condolences to Aunt Trees, Nicole and family, Alex and family, and everyone who will miss him dearly. ❤️🕊️ Mariska ❤️ / Ter nagedachtenis aan ome José ❤️ Ome José, waar moet ik beginnen? Misschien gewoon bij het begin. Mijn mooiste herinneringen gaan terug naar de tijd dat jullie vanuit Canada op bezoek kwamen. Dat was altijd feest. Voor ons betekende het gezelligheid, verhalen en avontuur. Voor jullie waarschijnlijk een marathon van familiebezoekjes en logeerpartijen door heel Nederland. Als kind vond ik het fascinerend dat jullie een andere taal spraken. En vooral hoe u sprak: Engels met emotie en temperament van uw Portugese roots. Ik hoor het nog steeds hoe u mijn naam uitsprak: "MarIEska!" Niemand heeft dat ooit zo gezegd als u. Tijdens mijn eerste reis naar Canada namen u en tante Trees ons mee op een echte campertrip. Barbecueën, vuurvliegjes bewonderen en genieten van de natuur en de schitterende omgeving. Tot die ene avond... toen er een enorme tor in mijn pyjama zat ( ik weet nog zelfs dat het onder mijn oksel was) . Ik was best hysterisch en stond op het punt een complete crisis te veroorzaken, terwijl u alleen maar zei; "What's wrong with that girl, all that drama," Achteraf hebben we er ontzettend om gelachen, maar ik blijf erbij: die tor was écht gigantisch. Wat ik ook nooit zal vergeten, was hoe u overal thuis leek te zijn in de natuur. Of dat nu in Canada was of later bij ons op de boerderij in Nederland. U liep rond, plukte iets van een struik of boom, bekeek het even en at het vervolgens gewoon op met de wilde kastanjes als mooiste vondst. Ook jullie laatste bezoek staat in mijn geheugen gegrift. U wilde ons trakteren op een écht goed stuk vlees van de barbecue. Dus gingen we naar de Sligro, want wat er volgens u in de gewone supermarkt lag, stelde niet veel voor vergeleken met de Canadese en of Portugese standaard. Het werd weer zo'n avond waarvan je achteraf beseft: dit zijn de herinneringen die blijven. Ik ben dankbaar voor al die mooie momenten, voor uw humor, uw verhalen, uw warmte en uw eigenzinnigheid. Het leven is een gegeven, maar hoe vaak we dat ook weten, afscheid komt altijd onverwacht. Ook dit afscheid. Rust zacht, ome José. Maar waar u ook bent: behoud alsjeblieft dat Portugese temperament. Dat zou u zijn. Love you. ❤️ Heel veel sterkte voor tante Trees, Nicole en familie, Alex en familie, en iedereen die hem moet missen. ❤️🕊️ Mariska ❤️

Nicole, Sending you all our deepest sympathies at this sad time. It sounds like he had a wonderful and full life, with close friends and a strong family. With Love Sharon Neupert (Francis) and Family.

An amazing and interesting man with many hidden talents. We got to know and appreciate Jose on many occasions. Bob and Yvonne

Dear Terry and family, Our sincere condolences to all of you on the loss of Jose. Jose was our best friend for over 60 years, Roland , my husband ( deceased in 2024) met him at International House where I also met him in 1965. He became our best friend and after our marriages our bond grew closer, and we spend many happy times together, lots of parties and always wonderful meals. I learned a lot from Jose , Portugal (the best country in the world!), nature, gardening , flowers and of course barbecuing. Jose was a master at that, cooking on an open fire when we were camping together, his steaks were barbecued to perfection always, he had a special touch! Learned about his beloved town where he grew up, Sao Martinho. Roland and I visited him there one summer and it was just as he described it, a beautiful village, simple, but beautiful, still see the cows coming through the cobbled streets, beautiful memories! That little village produced only smart people he told us! And Jose was smart, kind , generous and helpful, especially in our yard, he trimmed our hedges, cut trees and gave us advice! He loaded it all on the truck himself and I was always amazed how quick he was and how perfect it was loaded, nothing ever fell off! And we learned quickly not to help him, he had his own way of doing things! He was a wonderful friend and I will miss him very much! Rest in peace dear Jose, forever remembered and in our hearts. Love Dini

Sincere condolences on the loss of your dear husband.

Dear Terry and family. Always when we went to Canada to see Diny and Roland we where invited for a nice meal at Terry and Jose. Then we usually talked with Jose about soccer and Portugal 🇵🇹 I loved the way he was telling things. They also came over to the Baseline rd. And then we always listened to his conversation with Roland about Politics. Jose is in our hearts forever! Last time we were in Canada he said: i miss you guys... We will miss you Jose 🩷 Strenght for the family!

My condolences to the family… I’m so sorry for your loss 💔😢 I will miss you Uncle Jose… you are a legend! You will always be in my heart ❤️💙❤️ Wendy and Philippe Brunner

Dear Terry and family Alves. We have know Jose for so many years and we will never forget him. We were always invited for dinner when we went to Canada at their house, and his barbeques were famous! And the wine he made himself tasted amazing. His wife Terry is a great cook and we always felt very welcome in their home. We wish the whole family a lot of strenght to cope with their loss. The photo is from 2017

My deepest sympathies to all the family and friends. RIP🙏

We are so sad to learn of the passing of my Padrinho. We cannot express how important he was to us. He was a father figure to us. He was always there for the important moments in our lives. He will be truly missed and remembered with love. We will treasure these memories. Terry, Nicole, and Alex please accept our deepest condolences. We will continue to keep him and the family in our prayers. Love you all! Helen, Duane and Emilia

Dear Terry, Nicole, Alex and family, I am sad to hear about the passing of Jose. I have such fond memories of growing up with your family and Jose. He was a smart man and seemed to know something about everything! All the family dinners we attended at your house and Jose was a master ” BBQ-er”. He will be greatly missed by all. Thinking about all of you at this time….may you stay strong in your grief and celebrate the wonderful memories!!! Michelle xo

Our deepest condolences, Terry! He is in our prayers and we have very good memories , we chat at the Sporting Club all the time, e will be missed! He was a great man and was a previllege knowing Jose

I will always remember the day that Josh was born. Jose greeted anyone in the waiting room. With a grin that couldn't leave his face he would tell them I'm a grandfather now yes my son had a son. He had to make sure everyone knew. Still brings a tear to my eye.

Senhor Jose, you were always a special part of my life. From the time I was an infant, you babysat me and brought so much joy to my life throughout the years. A dear friend to my parents, you blessed us all with many wonderful memories. Without a doubt, you were the best barbecuer I ever knew, and I always enjoyed our conversations as you carefully grilled your meats to perfection. You will be deeply and sadly missed. Terry, Nicole, and Alex, may you find comfort in your loving memories and in knowing many care. Much love being sent your way. Tina Luis ❤️

We are so sorry to hear the sad news about Jose. You and your family are in our prayers.

We’re so saddened by your loss Terry. We will cherish our recent visit with you and Jose. You two have always been a pleasure to chat with, Jose comments .. you soften the words :) . Jose will be missed and we are so grateful to have known him. xx Rita and family

Foi um choque esta partida. Como é possível, o meu Padrinho sempre tão forte, já ter terminado a passagem por esta vida? E que passagem tão marcante tiveste nas nossas vidas! A tua chegada era uma alegria infindável, ser teu Afilhado um Orgulho, e o teu modo de estar um exemplo. Um abraço cheio de carinho de todos nós, que tanto nos adoravas. Sobretudo ao meu Pai! Que Deus te receba e tenhas o merecido descanso da tua vida tão cheia e tão à tua maneira. Muito obrigado!

I am so sad to hear of Jose's passing. Our sincerest sympathies to Terry, Alex, Lee Ann, Josh, Brody and all extended families. Jose was always so welcoming to our family, a genuine soul, a great big loving heart and always had a fun story to tell. Our family had the pleasure of knowing Jose through Alex and Lee Ann and were even invited to stay with them when my son had a hockey tournament in London. Jose and Terry were gracious hosts and even came to watch my son play. Jose will be missed and our family is grateful that we had the pleasure of his company many times over the years. Heaven received another Angel to watch over us all.

How do I put into words what this titan of a man meant to myself, and my family? This is a very hard day, and the flood of memories coming back are endless. Jose was my father's (Manuel Vaz) best friend, a member of our family. The weekends that I spent with Jose and Terry when I was just a little girl, were perhaps some of the happiest times of my life. I was flower girl at their wedding, and their kindness, love and zest for life, were and are so very much a part of me. I take comfort in the many blessings that Jose had, and that he gave to others. His love, devotion, and pride in his children, Nicole and Alex and their wonderful spouses and grandchildren, just to mention them, lit him up inside. Jose's wife, partner, and his constant, Terry, what an amazing woman and friend, you brought him so much joy and power. God speed to the angels Jose, say hello to my parents, and bask in a well earned eternal glory. Love from Lila, Joe and family

Dear Terry. So sorry to learn of the loss of your beloved husband. Sending hugs and sincere condolences. Brenda

Hoje partiu o tio Zé Luís Alves.
Com ele parte também uma parte bonita das memórias da nossa família, dos encontros cheios de alegria, conversa e boa disposição. Era primo carnal do meu avô, e quem os viu juntos sabe bem a ligação forte, próxima e genuína que existia entre os dois. O meu avô partiu em 2022… hoje reencontra um companheiro de vida, de histórias e de família. Guardarei sempre a forma afetuosa como me tratava e a alegria que trazia sempre que nos visitava. Homem vivido, viajado e de coração aberto, deixava marca por onde passava. À família, um abraço sentido neste momento difícil.
Que descanse em paz.

Gone but never forgotten! I will always remember how Jose was always so nice to my daughter Jordyn! Always made us feel like family! Heaven got an amazing man on their roster! Miss you Jose, hope you are resting easy❤️

Our deepest condolences! May his soul rest in peace!🙏