Molly Anne Murphy

It was such a pleasure to begin a new career path with Molly. Her passion for nursing and the misunderstandings of those with psychiatric needs was amazing. She was quiet, kind and thankful for the slightest help as we all were learning our new roles. Never one to boast of her accomplishments. She always spoke highly of her family, her precious daughters and loving husband. In her words and gestures it was obvious how much she valued and nurtured these relationships. Molly's spirit touched me in an inspiring way. I will truly miss her. My thoughts and prayers with loved ones. God bless. Cathy St. Thomas/Elgin CCAC

I met Molly this time last year only briefly in Ottawa. That chance meeting influenced my life's path for great things. God Bless her.

Words are not enough to express our sadness at the loss of Molly . . .her bright spirit could be felt the minute she walked into a room. Our children, Jamie & Matthew enjoyed her easy, loving manner. We loved spending time with Molly & Kevin and hearing about her beautiful daughters and granddaughter. She will always be lovingly remembered by our family. Our deepest condolences to Kevin, Angela, Katie, Laura and loved ones.

Thank you Molly! Be at Peace.. You've certainly earned it! To Molly's family.. My most heartfelt condolences as I share this pain with you.

I was incredibly shocked by the news. My heart goes out to Kevin and Molly's kids. Although I knew you for only a short period of time, each moment I was with you, I was always treated with great love and kindness. You always made me feel welcomed. I must also agree with some of the comments above, both you and Kevin demonstrated a shining beacon of true love and devotion to one another. My condolences as well to Molly's family and friends.

Molly was the little girl who played with my daughter, swam in our pool, and spent a great deal of time in our home. I sewed halloween costumes for her and my daughter, Cathy (Snider), a bride and bridesmaid. Years later when they married, they were each others maid of Honour. Most people will remember Molly for the beautiful daughter of the King that she was; I will remember her always as that precious child sitting at my table. Deepest sympathy to her dear family.

My deepest sympathy to Kevin, Katie, Laura and Angela. I will always remember Molly with her wit, kindness and caring ways. She was a ray of light. We worked together in psychiatry for a number of years. She became near and dear to our whole family. Molly you were so special and we will all miss you.

How great it is to be a messenger for Children’s Rights and an Angel for Peace and Equality. That was Molly Murphy, the woman who followed her sense of humanity and conscience to help others in their fight for equality and justice in Family Law and for our children to have a continued relationship with both parents post-divorce. I first came in contact with Molly when she was researching her book and I shared our nightmarish dealings with our shamefully flawed Family Law System and our ill-equipped Mental Health Professionals. After reading my 17 page letter she called me up and said; OMG, your story could be mine, simply change the name. She went on to say that our partner’s ex.’s have the same personality disorder and the same first name… We shared many, many emails, telephone conferences over the last few years and I finally had the opportunity to meet her in person on Parliament Hill last summer at the Dave Nash Rally. Now we will strengthen our fight against any enemy of equality and justice in Canada’s FLAWED Family Law System. Molly’s work will not be in vain. I love you Molly Murphy, You are missed but not soon forgotten.

Molly's voice will live on through Not All Dads Are Deadbeats and the many other organizations that seek equal parenting. With Molly in mind, we will seek our goals. We will made her proud ;) Thank you for letting me know you Molly. Your book is not closed...your words will forever permeate our collective consciousness. I truely feel that this is the best any one can ever achieve in life really. Touching the lifes of others and leaving a legacy. You will be missed. ~ Dave Flook and Not All Dads Are Deadbeats

Molly worked hard with the CEPC (Canadian Equal Parenting Council) and the ANCQ (Action des Nouvelles Conjointes et des Nouveaux Conjoints du Québec) to build a better future for our children. All the ANCQ members wish to give their sincere condolences to the family and relatives.

God bless you Molly. As a member of FathersCan, I know how much you cared. We will all miss you.

May there be comfort in knowing that someone so special will never be forgotten. When I learned of the unfortunate passing of Molly I was shocked. I cannot possibly imagine the sorrow that has been thrust on your family. My deepest sympathies to Kevin, the girls, the family and all those who were lucky enough to know Molly and be a part of her life, however brief. Molly was a beautiful person, inside and out, and she will be uncompromisingly missed. Her golden aura will shine on forever.

My deepest sympathy to Molly's family. We are so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers, Kevin.

Molly your smile will live in our hearts for always. Love to your family.Carmel, Ralph and Poppy

Kevin, Katie, Laura,Angela and all of Molly's family and loved ones, my words alone cannot express or account for the deepest sorrow I feel for the loss of your mother, life partner and sister. I have known Molly a short while and in that short time I thoroughly understood that Molly's spirit is infinitely bigger than her physical form. (I can hear here saying "what are you saying I need to go on a diet?"). She was one of the most impressive humans I have ever met and known. She will forever be an important influence in my life. Molly has left indelible footprints on my heart, has inspired and strengthened my resolve to fight injustice and shown me how to live a dignified life. Goodbye for now my friend, All my love Daren

Girls, you were your mother's gems. She spoke of each of you long, and often. She shared your childhood pictures, your stories, your crusades - and she was so so so proud of each of you. You were revered and adored. I am so sorry for your loss. My heartfelt condolences to the entire family.

We were shocked to hear of Mollys passing. She was a wonderful, caring person. She was my dads nurse when he was in his last year and she was such a blessing to him and to all of our family. She was there for all of us during some very rough days. Although she was my dads nurse she helped us with difficult days with my mom also. Our prayers and thoughts are with her family at this very difficult time.

We are deeply sorry to hear of this tragic news. Our hearts go out to you at this time.

I have the privilege of working with Molly when I was at Chelsey Park with the Nursing Students. She was a kind and compassionate to everyone she came in contact with. My deepest sympathies to her family and all those she loved.

Molly you always made me feel good in your presence. You were always so happy about life in general. Never a mean word, gossip, or depressed thought. Only angels make it to heaven. I know you'll be there. It sadens me to think that our time together was short. The last time we saw each other, you , your husband , & I and your sister Betty & her husband Gerry Koolee were having Chineese Food together. It was so recent. We were all having a great lunch. And complimenting on how young & beautiful you looked. I will never forget you Molly. And I know my best friend (your sister) Betty won't either. Bye for now Angel. xxoo

I am deeply saddened to hear such tragic news. My heart felt sympaties to her family. I worked with Molly at Saint Elizabeth and she was a truly amazing woman. What a great loss for all. Kathy

My appology for misspelling Koolee. I'm Sorry Betty & Gerry. The name should have been Kollee. I did'nt know how to correct it. (above). xxoo -Shirley Ann Coates

I knew Molly from Chelsey Park and she was so well respected as a person and how well she did her job. She loved people and made them feel so at ease so approachable, kind , and she had a smile that just made you feel great. We shared a common bond "CATS" and we would share stories of the strays that came into our lives. I will never forget her kindness when I had a call from my Daughter one evening when I was working and one of our cats had a tragic accident in our backyard and she helped me through this when I fell apart. I still can't beleive she has been taken from us and she will be missed by so many. My sincere condolences to her family. Terri

I was absolutely sick when I read the obituary for Molly....I have no words other than she was one of the most remarkable people I ever had the pleasure of meeting.....Heaven's gain, our loss...

To the Murphy Family, I met Molly July 2011, she and I spent 3 days in trainning together. Molly was and is wonderful !! She said to the group "if you can't do anything nice then just be kind" Molly remenbers her grandfather telling her this very statement. He must be so proud of who she was and is in my heart. Rest in peace Molly Ana

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Molly was a Good friend and confidant in past years. I was deeply sadened in hearing that she had passed away. To all of her family I give my heart felt sympathy.

Molly will live on in the hearts and minds of everyone who knew her. The light she brought to this world will never be extinguished.

Our sincerest condolences on the passing of Molly. Molly touched our lives, enriching our lives in a deep and profound way. Her soul will be with us forever. Keith Chancellor, Chelsey and David. Salmon Arm, BC

I was very shocked to hear of Molly's passing, we had not been in touch for a while and I did not even know she was battling a fight with cancer! My thoughts and prayers go out to all of Molly's girls, to Kevin and all the rest of her family! You are now in heaven with Jim and we love and miss you. Love, Ange & Jay, (your Step-Niece)

The team at Saint Elizabeth Health Care here in London was shocked to hear of Molly's passing. We remember her as a compassionate professional and a strong team player. Our condolences to the family.

A couple of weeks ago, Molly and I were having a conversation via text message. As usual, the conversation turned to the subject of Family Law, which Molly was a dedicated advocate and tireless crusader to have reformed to reflect virtues that this country is supposed to stand for, and those are Equality, Justice, Human Rights, and most importantly, the best interests of Canadian Children. No one knew more just how far Canadian Family Law misses the mark in regards to those virtues than Molly. She has personally witnessed the evils and injustice of this disturbingly sick industry, and dedicated her life to exposing it and bringing about reform. In that true Irish fighting spirit, Molly stated, "We will Win this fight Dave!" To which I replied, "We have already won Molly!" Molly was a little confused by my statement, but unfortunately, our conversation was cut short and I told Molly that I would explain my reasoning to her the next time we got together. I would like to take the time to have that conversation with Molly now: We have already won Molly, because we have not allowed the Family Law industry to harden our hearts to be like those heartless people who feed off of the industry. We have not allowed the industry to make us compassionless, vendictive, self-serving individuals, who only see children as a dollar sign with a baseball cap or pigtails. We have already won Molly, because we haven't allowed the industry to divide us and have men and women hate one another. Most importantly though Molly, we have won because we continue to fight for change, as the industry wants nothing more than to have us so beaten down that we have no fight left in us. We have won Molly!!! And no one has demonstrated our victory over Family Law more than you have. You are our Champion!!! I am going to miss you so much Molly...

Kevin & girls: So sorry to hear you have lost your Soul-Mate & Mother & Best Friend! Molly always had a smile and a bounce when she walked portraying the wide shoulders and big heart she had .She will be truly missed. The autumn of her life had come early. May you find peace & strength in God's hands during this very difficult time. Molly will never leave you - she will always be over your shoulders guiding you all the way. Linda Rabb

I'll miss you Molly. Your fight for father's rights will never end as I will do everything I can for the rights of fathers. I won't forget you Molly. Until we meet again.

Love for a Stranger You looked at us with no judgment You heard us when we spoke You embraced us when we cried You held our hands through our battles Your calm voice gave us solace Your knowledge gave us power Your touch kept us calm Your heart beat gave us rhythm Our Promise to you…… We will hear people when they speak We will embrace people when they cry We will join hands with people through their battles We will view people with no judgment Our hearts will beat with the rhythm of your love as we keep moving forward. With love, Nash Family and Friends

I only had the pleasure of meeting Molly on a couple of occasions and she had a special aura about her. Molly was a lot of things to many people and will be missed tremendously. May there be some comfort in knowing that someone so special will never be forgotten and her legacy lives on in her family and friends.

On behalf of all our FathersCan members across Canada, I offer sincere condolences to all of Molly's family. Molly and Kevin were early members of our organization and Molly was active to the end-one which none of us saw coming or were even aware of. God Bless you Molly. You have left your influence of spirit behind and it is impossible to forget that any more than it is possible to erase it. You will never be forgotten. Jeremy Swanson

Molly was an inspiration to the Canadian Equal Parenting Council, and I am proud to call her my friend. She was a wonderful person and did so much for the cause of family law and divorce reform. She will be sorely missed and we are dedicating some of our equal parenting initiatives in her honour. While this is a sad time for her family, perhaps it is a comfort that Molly affected so many in so many positive ways.

I had the privledge of getting to to know Molly and in the short time I knew her, she touched me deeply. She loved life and her positive attitude was infectious. She will be missed. My condolences to her family and friends.

You're in a better place, I've heard a thousand times - And at least a thousand times I've rejoiced for you - But the reason why I'm broken, the reason why I cry - Is how long must I wait to be with you - I close my eyes and I see your face - If home's where my heart is then I'm out of place - Lord, won't you give me strength to make it through somehow - I've never been more homesick than now - Help me Lord cause I don't understand your ways - The reason why I wonder if I'll ever know - But, even if you showed me, the hurt would be the same - Cause I'm still here so far away from home - In Christ, there are no goodbye - And in Christ, there is no end - So I'll hold onto Jesus with all that I have - To see you again - To see you again... (Molly, Betsy and I are feeling very Homesick without you, but we know that we will see you again. Till then, please know that your memory and spirit will always be in our hearts. We love you.)

She was a very big person that spoke up against what is currently wrong in family court. She is a hero in my book.

My heart felt sympathy to Kevin and Angela, Katie, Laura. This is such a loss because of the incredible person that Molly was......Loving Mother, Supportive Partner, Great Friend. Her gentle spirit was generous, loving, and kind. I've seen the influence of her positive energy in the life of my friend, Kevin, and during the cherished times over great food, and cottage visits. The world is truly a better place because Molly was here.

My thoughts go out to Molly's family. Please stay strong. I never got the chance to meet Molly but she was an amazing friend to my mother. She helped her get through some rough times just by listening and giving her words of wisdom. I know my mother misses her deeply. And even tho I never meet her I miss her also.

When I first considered writing my memoirs about my time in the family court system, I got in contact with Molly. She was very helpful and encouraged me to continue with my book. My deepest sympathies.

Molly was a gift to this world, to her family, to our family, to her friends, to people who didn't even know her, and of course to my brother, her soulmate, Kevin who stood by her side till the last. Kevin, I am so proud of you. Molly was so many things but most of all she was caring and strong. Though her life was not long she made a very positive impact on many and we will all miss her, especially Kevin whom she loved so much. Let us not ask why, but simply say thank you to god for bringing Molly into our lives. She was a gift and that is how I will remember her. Bruce Morrison

Our deepest sympathy at the loss of Molly, may your precious memories of love, laughter and tears shared with her bring you some comfort and continued strength. My last words from Molly were "enjoy peace and serenity, big hugs"-she was just that kind of person...everyone who has met Molly is so saddened...she is one more angel above us.

Kevin, Katie, Laura and Angela, my heart goes out to you and the whole family. Molly was one of a kind and those of us lucky to have had her friendship will never forget her. Molly was absolutely unique, she was kind and thoughtful and funny and inspirational and a joy to be with. She will be forever in my heart.

Goodbye my dear friend Molly. I was lucky to have spent a great deal of time with you, we shared a wonderful friendship. My blessings to your family.

I was very shocked to hear this terrible news. Molly touched a lot of people with her common sense way of approaching things. She was a great help to a lot of people who unfortunately never got to meet her personally. Best wishes to all the family, friends, and people she touched. Thank You Molly for all that you did for the children of divorce. RIP. Kind Regards Scott Pillon

I was shocked to hear of Molly's passing. She was an inspiration to many. Her energy and good will imbued so much of what she did, and impacted many people, particularly the parents and children in divorce. The world is a poorer place without Molly. My most sincere condolensces to her family and friends.

My deepest sympathy to you Kevin, Laura, Katie and Angela. I cannot imagine the grief you are feeling. Molly was a good friend who had a "gentle spirit" and a listening ear. I have never met anyone quite like her. I will miss our conversations and dinners out. You are truly an angel of God who will continue to live in our hearts.

My heart goes out to Molly's girls and the rest of the family. She proudly showed us pictures of her daughters and now you are her endearing legacy to the world. You will be missed greatly, my Irish Canadian namesake, and you left a legacy for many in the fight for children to love and be with both parents unfettered by acrimony. We will carry the torch, as did you, and hold it high for passage to those who follow. Much of the good work in the world is achieved by those who stand on the shoulders of those who persevered beside or before others. You are missed but not soon forgotten.

Kevin our heart goes out to you and you're family. Not knowing Molly I realized what a Special Person She is and a chosen Angel to watch over you and your Family. I now know Molley is and Angel for My wife Linda who is in Kingston General Hospital recovering from this dreadful disease, Molly has given us a friendship that will never be broken. Molly we have never met but I feel that you are with Linda and I overseing Linda's recovery all the way. Molly you will always be with us, thanks for coming into our lives however short it was.

My deepest sympathy to Kevin, Katie, Laura and Angela during this time of great sorrow. My heart is with you. It was a great shock to receive this terrible news. Molly was a exceptional person and mother. I will miss her very much. Be at peace Molly...

Kevin you know our heart goes out to you The love that you and Molly had for each other was a light to everyone that knew you you were such a lost person before Molly came into your life and it was truly a new beginning for you that made you happier than I had ever seen you Molly was in every way an Angel that GOD used on earth Her smile, her unconditional love ,her kindness, lifted everyone she met She will never leave you Kevin She is watching over you and always will Let GOD"S peace comfort you GOD be with you Dean & Lynda